What i'm Thinking About
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Pt1: The pride of Friendship and why modern relationships are deeply transactional and superficial.
A good life, a really good life is built with good relationships. Introduction Friendship is a mutual affection, a strong interpersonal (usually non-sexual) bond...
Iterate, Repeat – The path to competence.
Ever wondered how some persons get really good at what they do or how some seem to develop competence in a field very easily?...
Who is going with you?– A reflection
When you go for a walk with someone, something unspoken happens unconsciously, either you adjust to their pace, or they adjust to yours. A...
Conversations – How to talk and listen.
To put it bluntly, good conversational skills is a matter of life and death – A survival skill. In what some call the deadliest...
Intellectual rigorosity and fluidity, what it takes to hold an opinion
Although not often obvious, it is undeniable that individual school of thoughts shared on social media platforms, now sits very easily on our consciousness...
A date; the template for intimacy with God. (Part one)
In my interactions with Christians and Christian communities in the Netherlands and around Europe I have noticed something;
A Date; a template for intimacy with God. (Part two)
In part one some ideas about what dating someone is like were discussed and how similar approach can be used to develop a personal,...
Narratives; how the story we tell ourselves about ourselves drive our life.
The stories we tell ourselves often become our conviction(s).And our drive is more authentic, resilient and voracious in the direction of our conviction. We...